Archive for December, 2009


Insomnia in phuket city

been playing around on my iPhone for the past hour or so wrestling with the lofty possibility of getting a decent amount of sleep tonight but the iced coffee and tea I had at the bo(ok)hemian – a funky an eclectic book cafe near my hostel – is driving a formidable wedge in this plan.
THUS, I feel a overdue blog update is needed.
right now I am lying in a bed in the Phuket city backpackers hostel. why Phuket? I figured that after an always rough run with finals…a mini vacation preceding my return to Vancouver and after a mind-numbing two weeks of incessant cramming would very much ‘hit the spot’.
it has – I departed on the 26th evening from hkt..leaving an increasingly chilly metropolitan sprawl entering the humid, tourist-infested and sand-dusted streets of Phuket. the first night we (being a multifaceted group of hku exchange students) stayed just outside of Kata beach at a hotel called serene resort. this place was…franky, a royal rip and the not-so-nice rooms smelled a bit like toilet and the only additional offering I could see was the pool..which no one used because the beach is literally right outside…but regardless…the first night during a brief jaunt to 7-11 to pick up phone cards (Julia) and snacks (me)…we passed by the first ‘ladyboy’ prostitute in phuket…it was heartbreaking and sickening at the same time. the next day we met up with Darren (another friend from
exchange) and then booked a tour to see an elephant show and for an elephant walk. I must note that I’ve never been to a place so incredibly infiltrated by tourists than Phuket….which presents conveniences such as a currency exchange, multiple massage and travel agency centres on every single city block as far as the eye can stretch..but simultaneously this foreign influence had almost rotted the very soul of this tropical reprive from the chaos of Bangkok – prostitutes line the streets far from being subtle with their ambitions to seduce foreign cash while the rowdy roars from the heavy peppering of bars, stripclubs and dowdy joints nearby seem to deafen ad stifle the heartbeat of the city. it is a haven but also a Mecca of unrestrained lust, greed and godlessness. after the tour (which was a bit hokey and I felt guilty indulging in such a touristy activity…the poor elephant was a wee bit tired methinks) we headed to patong where my hostel ‘thai oriental inn’ was located.

patong was dreadful. truly a shame. a sleazy and blindingly neon mishmash of trash. walking down the main tourist hotspot in patong (kind of like khao San road in bangkok where all the backpackers flock) I warily and adamantly resisted the degrading stares and catcalls of the stupified drunks and partiers forming the lining and filling of the streets. literally every other ‘female’ on the street was either a white tourist or a gender-ambiguous street walker strutting around in a few scraps of fabric and sky-high heels. the booming bad music mixed with the incredibly foul smell of sewage cemented my distaste for patong…it was interesting that despite all the glitz and flashiness of the place…nothing could be done to mask the sheer stench of the streets..raw sewage…yum.

rough morning

went to a wine party last night in the wei lun flats……..all i gots to say about that is

never combine a bunch of euros, boxes of wine and jenn wu after an exam because the next morning is bound to be a BOMBtastic morning featuring a spectacularly awful headache (i think i woke up still a bit tipsy…classssssssy jenn wu) and 2 hours of trying to sober oneself up.

epic fails never found a fitting legacy than my life.

maybe?

so i have a final tomorrow.

it’s raining outside.  there’s something comforting but also mildly depressing about the familiarity i instantly felt once i felt the first raindrop hit flesh. the past month has been a bit of a blur…i know i always say that…but if i could try to make sense of it

i’d tell you about how my aunt shirley from LA (also one of my fave relatives) came for the month….went shopping one-too-many times with her…saw more of my mom’s side of the family…i think both sides need that extra buffer of familiarity (mom being here or shirley) to reign in my foreign-ness whenever i visit – otherwise we’re all faced with awkward lapses of silence and inevitably being my mother’s daughter…the unspoken apologies and resentments from ages past.  maybe all the lavish displays of hearty dishes  and endless conversations about wealth, acquiring more wealth and what to do with wealth  - fail to truly vanquish or tame the skeletons that have followed us to this point…sometimes i get annoyed at how hesitant to outright expression the chinese culture seems to be.  the words that leave your mouth don’t really seem to be your own..filtered first through a convoluted net of other peoples expectations and perceptions before making their way to light – at which point the meaning, force and fire which once drove the emotions forth are reduced to barely a spark. blaaaaaahhhhhhh

i’d also tell you about how school manages to block out a lot of my time…particularly being a month laden with final projects, essays, presentations and final exams – i’ve spent a good amount of time in the medical library near my hall. days blend together when i submerge into study mode…social contact is at a minute…except (of course) for my daily conversations with my best friend and of course random nights out with the other exchange kids and vince…but otherwise DANG i feel like a turtle. another blaaaaaaahhhhhh

last night we went to 3am dimsum in this nook and cranny hole-in-the-wall restaraunt nestled in sai wan….the hours of operation for the joint are a quirky 3-12pm and a mixed demographic of inebriated partiers traipsing in after a rough night (again) at lan kwai fong to the insomnia-stricken elderly residents nearby who meet once the doors open at their usual table to people-watch – putting up a good race to the self-service dimsum table situated to one side of the establishment.  where else but hong kong can i find a place bustling with activity at 3 in the morning….coming off a stupor induced by my studies…there’s nothing better to infuse a refreshing jolt of life into your veins than the occasional comfort of company and oh the food was good too!

i should be studying….feel like this post is incomplete…

i’ve been making a lot of private posts lately thereby defeating (i guess the point of this blog)

shall make a meaty update……..tmr

(classic procrastinater)

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